Pursue then distance is typical WAS. She got herself into uncomfortable territory then backed way off. Normal, see it all the time on threads here.

You should probably give here a lot more space and time so you can both sort out your feelings.

Also, arguing with her over her perception is not going to win you any points with her. Instead you should be validating her feelings, which are hers alone and therefore NOT wrong. She felt uncomfortable, accused you of being clingy, to which you might say "well thats not how i remember it but im sorry you felt that way. Period. Not three paragraphs and ten bullet points about why you are right and she is wrong.

Everyone here can tell you she's crazy (i wouldnt; confused, uncertain, projecting for sure) but does everyone here's diagnosis help you at all? Needing to prove you are right is a relationship killer, something to work on.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.