It seemed like it was her talking about the future and being clingy here:

[She did say she saw a baby the other day that had black hair and blue eyes (W's hair is almost black and I have very blue eyes). She kind of sighed and said, "You never know what the future holds for us." I told her that would be expensive and iffy - both of us have been "fixed". She said, "Well, we could adopt." I was like "Let's cross that bridge when we come to it!" - and changed the subject. awkward!

Have you ever thought that your w is having a feeling and she is not comfortable with it and so she projects it onto you as if it is your feeling?

Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)