You didn't say anything about the future did you? That might appear clingy.
Besides helping you grow, going dark doesn't give the WAS that kind of ammo. I know going dark doesn't feel intuitive but until you get through the process, it's hard to understand.
I'd say it's time for you to get off her roller coaster.
Check please! lol
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012