In and out of fog city

[2ndtimearoundCA]

So W calls today while I am driving and I don’t answer. Her message said that she was in my part of town and calling to see if I wanted to have lunch with her.
I have not yet returned her call and I don’t even know if I should. I would not have been able to make lunch because I had other commitments. Does this count as one of those times I don’t accept an invitation? (accept some but not others)

Somebody please explain my WAW to me!!! (More of a rhetorical question)

Sometimes she wants me as emotional support. Sometimes she wants me as a drinking buddy. And she has had thoughts of wanting me as a sex buddy. Other times she runs off like she will never speak to me again.

It is really funny to me that the last time we were together she said that it would be really great to sleep with me, but she was concerned about me getting too emotionally attached. She of course has no feelings for me what so ever… So for her it would just be sex. Since when is she concerned about my wellbeing? Even that night she said that she needed to live for herself for a while since she had given so much of herself. I attempted to validate all these thoughts, but in the past when I transcribed my validation attempts here people typically get out the 2x4s.

She pulls me in and then she pushes me away. I guess I am learning that this is typical ..

Anyway, I have my son’s football game to go to and then I am off to play matchmaker between a female and male friend of mine. Lucky them!!