@NTX Sigh, you were right, I'm not too proud to admit it.
I have been gone awhile, and then out of the blue, W's crazy side pops up!!
W: "Today was a bit much, you were too clingy".
Me: "Excuse me?"
W: "You know I give an inch, and you take a mile."
Me: "I'm confused. From Sunday to Wednesday I didn't contact you at all. Wednesday you texted me about the stay, and I only texted you a couple of times. Today, YOU invited me over for coffee. I stayed less than an hour, and when I left, YOU said I didn't have to go, and for me to just stay. We hugged one time. I left anyway because I needed to work. Later, I dropped off S5, and YOU said, "Hey, why don't you guys stay awhile, you don't have to leave, but we left because we had chores to get caught up."
W: "Well, you were too clingy. Now quit texting me."
I called her and left a VM just trying to validate that I understand there is a lot going on. I said that I was confused by her perception of the day, and that I'd prefer to understand why she felt that way, but otherwise to have a nice weekend. It was hard, I wanted to yell in the phone, "Good lord, woman, what is wrong with you!!??" But I didn't.
I AM confused. If I had been calling her and texting and bugging and begging, I guess I could understand her being that way, but the whole day was her idea! I literally saw her for about a total of an hour, and we texted a little bit about her piano afterward, initiated by HER, then she went out to left field.
This is insane - I mean she hugged me HARD, was all wistfully talking about a baby. I dunno, maybe she opened up too much, and felt like she needed to re-gain some ground.
