Should I confront or not?

[peaceSJ]

Hi All, thank you very much for your supports and advices. After H said he will move out, we haven't talked any details yet, such as finance, timeshares with kids...
Ambiv, I really appreciated your inputs. What kind of boundries should I set? He wants to come over every day. Is it too much? But our kids are still very young (5 and 7 years old), they didn't know anything yet. It is so hard to tell them.

And What list will Cadet send to me?

Is there any legal issue I need to concern now?

Thanks,