I was catching up on your sitch (I didn't know you had a new thread) and I was thinking exactly what AS said.
There are days where I'm like "I am done. I don't care what H says/does/thinks..." and I come up with all these hateful things I want to say (in my head)...things much like the ones you posted. And, I'm thinking that I'm finally detached. But I think AS is right.
We're not detached until we truly do not think about what our H is doing or saying...where they just don't even cross our minds anymore. I know, for me, I'm not there, yet.
And, I think that while you and I are fortunate to have our H's still at home...it also makes it much, much, much more difficult to detach. We're still a part of their lives, a little bit...just enough that we can't completely get off the coaster.
Hope you have a really good time tonight and enjoy yourself (but not TOO much! Lol!). Remember why you love being you and celebrate that.
