I've virtually convinced myself that I have to tell my W how I feel. I've taken on board what you guys have posted and it sounds like 'temp checking' really isn't a good idea but and its a big but I think I need to hear what I expect to hear from my W so I can move forward. That sounds crazy doesn't it!?
Recently we have had pleasant text conversation mainly involving the kids. I'd sometimes send her a pic of what me and the kids are upto. I did exactly that last weekend and she replied with "looks fun maybe next time I could come along"? Not looking into it to much, but she has never replied with anything like that before!
We have been S for virtually a year, a year! In that time I've gone thru hell, maybe she has as well(?) and prob 3/4 months ago I accepted that we prob won't R, so why all of a sudden do I feel like this? Is it because of the milestone?
I know its against the rules but has anyone temp checked? If so I'd like some pointers on what/what not to write.
England play tonite so I'm going out to watch the game to get me out of the house.
Thanks Guys/Gals
M - 37 W - 35 T - 11 M - 5.5 SD13 D10 S4 ILYBINILWY 15 Oct '12 Moved out 7 Dec 12 At present - Being the best dad i can be.
