wife hardends heart-4

[planet]

W did mentioned something about not spending enough time with the kids a couple of weeks ago. I think it is also when I requested for more time, not too sure though. Yesterday, she said the same thing.

If I do the math correctly, she have more time with our kids than I do. On weekdays, I usually spend about 1 to 1 1/2 hours with the kids. W has the advantage of returning early and taking them out to the park. That's 1 hour. The kids don't sleep until at least 1 hour after I leave. In the mornings she gets to see them.

On the weekends, I usually take the mornings because W had made plans for the evening. That's only about 3 hours because D4 have dance and singing classes in the afternoon. After that, she have them for the rest of the evening. That's more hours than I have.

I'm so confused because the math just don't add up. What's more confusing is that she complained that she don't have enough time with them. She said I took more time during weekdays because she only got to spend time with the kids after I leave and they have to go to bed right after that. Simply illogical because I leave at 9pm and kids don't sleep till about 10-10.30pm.

I was tempted to tell her to spend time alone with kids when going out rather than stringing OM along, maybe then it's more quality and focused time. Or maybe if she cared to put down her mobile, then she could have more quality time.

But she did complained two times. Is there something I should take note?
I wanted to validate her but she's in anger mode and walked off as soon as I asked what's wrong.

Or is it because I interrupted her plans when I asked for a full day which she did not asked for it earlier?

Maybe she jealous of my time with the kids? A bit far off.

I'm driving myself crazy here thinking there's something she wanted me to understand her frustrations.