I was married to someone who didn't like to do anything I did. Consequently, we developed separate lives and XH found someone else to do life with.
I'll compromise, but I would prefer to share most things with a partner.
Hey GG - Seeing you like at least 2 of my 3 favorite things (golfing and keeping fit) I'd love to give you a run for your money but unfortunately there are too many states between here and CO. Good luck on POF and with the EMT.