I was feeling much the same way as PM, even though my H has yet to express anything R related. I was feeling down, but now my spirits have picked up again, and I thank you both for that.
You are both wise spirits, and that is invaluable to me. Thanks.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.