I agree with NMM and LBH. Hold the horses on this one! It won’t make any difference if you bring this up now, in a week or a month.
At the same time I want to address this:
Originally Posted By: BKS
It did help me become more detached because now, I know that there is no immediate hope that she will want to R.
How do you know there’s no immediate hope?
I have seen quite a few Rs with OM/OW dissolve – if and when nobody knows so I do not see why this changes anything. I can understand if it changes your look on W but it shouldn’t change your hope! Just my 2C
All the best
F
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
