Mike,

I don't know what women need! This is part of my problem, LOL!

However, the book we're talking about right now is John Gray's Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.... and the 5LL (Gary Chapman) are:

Acts of Service
Words of Affirmation
Quality Time
Gifts
Physical Touch

I believe they are at the library, and they can do an interjurisdiction transfer if you ask.

I borrowed Mars from a friend (have returned it as well) and Mr. W. still has the 5LL.... or I'd let you borrow them in a NY minute.

So, we'll hand the ball to you now, Troy...

Bob B./Bruce/Betsey (at least I'm consistent with the B thing)

"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."

Albert Einstein