GTO,You haven't heard from me, but I feel like I know you from following your story for a couple months now. I am similar to you in many ways, and following your back and forth convinced me to work on finding some patience instead of healing my ego in the arms of someone new (and ultimately not right). I believe that your marriage still has a chance and that you are on the right path with your detachment. May I suggest that you wait to make any final decisions until you learn that you will be okay alone? The desperation of not wanting to be alone can't be helping with h and won't help you find and make good choices in the dating world. Keep working on you until you have your power back.

Thank you for sharing your story. You have undoubted helped many more people than you realize!!!

M43 H43
M14 T22 when it all fell apart
D12 S10
"Never have been happy" 3/2013
EA/PA since 2/2013
H moved out 11/2013
H looking to buy a house where OW can live with him 5/2015
Very cordial, nothing filed