Also, oddly, S-D10 called me tonight, just sobbing over D13 not having a sleepover this weekend. I told her D13 was in trouble over homework and chores, so I think I got the drama under control. I believe D10 is about to hit "womanhood", so the hormones are pretty crazy. W has never dealt with this before, so I'm honestly sort of worried about W being her role model right now.
I have to realize this is not under my control. I told W what I had talked to S-D10 tonight, and that I had told her that D13 was in trouble, but she needed to have a woman-to-woman talk to D10.
So as of now, I'm out. Unless W calls me and pushes it, I'm not going to coffee tomorrow. Thanks for the input, but I've realized my kids need my attention at the moment, not subject to the whims of a WAW.