The thing to remember is that anything you did or didn't do in your marriage was never with the intent to cause harm to it or your h. You did the best you could with the tools and knowledge you had at the time. And because of all that, you have to learn to forgive yourself.
This was an awesome piece of advice uR. You are the bomb!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
