Fully agree with BKS, there is no secret answer. And I am sure there are many of us who wish there was an answer. Improve yourself, that's it. Fix things that were broken about you. Be the best person you can be. Remember this is a marathon, not a sprint. Everything will take time, lots of it.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
