Thank you so much Bright. Several people have validated me on here about being a good mom and that means the world to me. Especially when you never know if you are doing the right thing with teenagers!
Any advice on anything I have posted is much appreciated. I have a long post here ;), since I was here back in '06.<--that still blows me away that I am back here again. But obviously I still have much to learn and darnit, this time I will make it stick.
I think part of the hard thing for me after our last reconciliation is that I felt like I was always had to treat my H as another son, because he acted that way! He was trying to be more of a buddy than a father and appeared to have a bit of fear of old age. So I'm sure he is still mlc'ing but I need to learn to treat him better regardless of how he is acting or what he is going through. I can't just assume he knows how to act in every situation. I think I had that expectation of him too, I thought he was wise for his age when I married him and I always thought that. Then when he never appeared to grow out of that it was weird.
Wow, thanks for getting me to talk Bright! LOL, didn't realize I had so much to say today.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
