Doing that work now, or have been for a while. Just sent them a random pm on facebook saying how proud I am of their latest achievements. They are both probably shocked they haven't seen me be angry, depressed or whinging for so long.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.