As far as I can tell you still haven't even scratched the surface of DB'ing. You always reply to texts quickly, engage in conversations, and whenever she invites you over for coffee you run over there. She just wants attention and to check to make sure she has you on the line.
I'm not saying NEVER go over and see her, but geeesh, turn her down at least once. lol
This back and forth, up and down is just prolonging the pain and game in my humble opinion. You both are still the same, nobody has changed yet, you just live under separate roofs for the time being.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012