I'm going to add water to my mudd and see if that helps.
It was a very good process for me. I am much better mentally and emotionally in a LOT of ways, but there are some things that haven't changed in 5 months either. It's just a matter of self-assessment where I keep thinking about where I want to go and where I don't want to go, and I realized that I was REALLY low for a REALLY long time, and that I'm very glad I'm not there anymore.
9) It's been about 18 months since we physically separated, and I'm still not used to sleeping alone. It's been a little more than four months since the day of my divorce - the day I sat in the parking lot and took off my wedding ring for the first time after the judge made things final - and my left ring finger still feels naked. I figured I'd be used to it by now.
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
