T, not a vet, but agree that flowers would be a lovely b-day present from 'her boys'. Also agree to keep everything else simple that day. I just realized it's my H's b-day in 8 days.. seems like we are really on the same timeline! lol. Have a good day.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.