Well, she seems to be pretty insistent about wanting me to come over. She texted me again, and said, "What time were you thinking about coming over?" I responded with "Whenever, I don't really have a strict schedule on Fridays." She suggested 10, and I said that was fine. She then said, "That'll give me time to get S5 to school, and come back and get a shower".
I joked with her saying that this time, we probably shouldn't have coffee with her walking around half naked. W: "Hmmph. We'll have coffee, but that's probably all that will happen." *few seconds pause* W: "Probably...."
I think I'll accept your challenge, Pud! I like this opportunity. 1. W has really pushed it, not me. 2. I have time to prepare as described by AS "What I'm trying to get you to do is start thinking in those terms (you'll remember better if you craft it versus me telling you what you should have said), so that the next time it happens you remember this and modify your behavior." 3. It'll be the first time that I'll not be all twisted up emotionally, and I'll be able to focus on DBing my butt off, validating, checking on feelings, etc. Of course, I'm not going to bring up any R talk myself, so if it doesn't come up, then that's cool, too.
