W's b-day is coming up in 3.5 weeks...these past years of mlc/limbo I have just done the light and airy, maybe even fun card thing.
I want to change that up.
I want to send her a bouquet of flowers to either her work or to the house...this is something I did a lot during the courting time before we were married.
Based on the fact that she keeps looking for, and sometimes buying me things I need or could use at her store, I'm thinking one of her LL is gifts.
I am thinking to make them from "all of us boys in her home"...but she'll know who instigated it...
Given where she is at (possible re-connect/acceptance), would this be "too much" pressure/pursuit?
Thank you in advance for any thoughts and suggestions... T^2
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