“Take many things seriously – such as work and relationships – but none of them too seriously. No good thing absolutely has to exist in your life and no bad thing absolutely must disappear. Do the best that you can do to cope with frustrations and to improve your lot. But you cannot stem the tides and you cannot perform miracles.”

- Albert Ellis


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden