I think the emotional/mental dependence can be much harder, especially when you have loved someone for so long and just want them to be happy. It seems simple, but it is NOT. I am impressed by the things you have accomplished!

uR is awesome and very wise. I, too, appreciate the concrete list she made, that is wonderful to see it in print.

You will get there. Keep going on day by day.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.