Struggling!

[MrBond]

I think what the bigger picture is that what if your W decides to stop doing something else that is important to you, like the sex.

It just sounds like she keeps taking and you keep sacrificing. A little here and a little there and she's going to get everything she wants while you're left with nothing. Has she ever had a serious heart to heart to you and discuss how she's tried but she just can't do it? Sometimes I get the feeling that she goes through the motions and without being serious about it.