Today has to be my worst birthday ever. Not only I don't have a W to spend it with, I got an angry W who is demanding unreasonable things! I got to W's place after work and took my kids out to celebrate my birthday. I don't mind not having W around. I feel confident enough to be happy, genuinely happy. I mean I don't get any birthday wishes from W and no presents or cakes. I expected it will be as such therefore I'm not upset at all. I just want to be with my kids. After sending them back, I asked if I could have a full Saturday with the kids since she had asked for Friday and Sunday the night before. Then she started to get angry and and said I can't have the kids the full day. Puzzled, I asked why not. She said she don't spend enough time with the kids. I asked her what's really bothering her and off she goes bursting. MIL asked what's wrong and I related to her what happened. She naturally defended W and kept really quiet. My time with the kids so much lesser than what she have and yet she complained. Last week, she had Friday and Saturday. I only had a half Sunday minus the kids nap time. This is not a competition and i am not competing with her for the kids time. I only want what's fair and i don't think my request is unreasonable. She did not want to tell me what's wrong. I can feel she's hiding something. Not going to go there. She can't dictate when I can see my kids. I have given her reasonable notice. She acting all crazy this week.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet