Thanks for confirming my thoughts, job. While I don't want rush in and bring the issue back up, I also don't want to not talk about it and allow it to be swept under the rug. Just thinking about some of our past behaviors here.

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Maybe she feels you shot down her idea about the car and feels unbelievably hurt about it. And she knows you caused all her pain (in her mind).


The thing is I never said we couldn't get whatever car she wanted. Only that I wasn't sure about spending big money right now. You're right she was hurt, which was never my intent. Once hurt, she wouldn't let me explain. Wouldn't discuss it in a civil manner.

"Ok, then I'll just end up on the side of the road"
"Just tell me what I can have"
"Maybe I should just don your socks while you decide" (this one seems funny now, but it wasn't then)

Oh, and several F-you's after I smiled and said we should talk about this tomorrow and left the room.

I think I will bring it up tonight. I think I have too.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl