The boys don't live with the W. When I move back, myself and the boys will be almost 1000km away from the W.
Gotcha. In that case I agree with you and F, don't say anything to her about it. She's removed herself from the picture at this point unfortunately.
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Yes, I am hoping to see them more. Also hoping that they will in turn come and see me, rather than me doing all the chasing/ringing etc. But being young adult boys, I have to accept it may be the case that I am doing all the work.
I suspect that if you do the work initially, then eventually they will reciprocate. The 5 Love Languages techniques don't just work on spouses, it's the same kind of deal with kids. You fill their love tanks and they'll WANT to fill yours.
