She still wants full custody and says that I agreed for it. I wanted to see if she aggres to be together. When a woman says she wants full custody, it may not be reasonable. But for sure it's NOT a signal for you to "see if she agrees to be together."
That's what I mean about you projecting your wants and desires onto her. She's NOT giving you the signals you think she is and you are pursuing HER instead of just trying to be a good father.
YOUR GOAL was to show that your son was THE target for your love, b/c you respected her choices (instead of constantly asking her to change her mind and forcing her to defend those choices) and do as we've repeatedly said, which is "fight for your son and show her the new you"'
not the same old guy who makes demands the second he sees his w reconsidering, or seeing him in a new light. That's the OLD you, that;s
the manipulative pretend to care about the boy--- so she cares about ME" kind of man, that no woman trusts with her heart, or offspring.
Looks likes he made up her mind and wants to move on. I cannot aggree to 100% custody and joint custody with she being primary is resonable. This whole year she has been so inconsistent with every thing
might she say the same about your inconsistencies? And even if you don't see it that way, surely you realize that the more you pressure her, the more you push her away.
Just be the good guy you ought to be, WITHOUT making demands of her.
Is that really so hard?
I think it would pay off tremendously in the fight for your son. And it's the right thing to do.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
