ToMrBond,25yearsmic,big bruce,Lostinscared,crimson

[25yearsmlc]

Yes, she texted me the other day saying what's in her heart.she said she was shocked and did not want thing to go this way. I went to her and knocked her door she didnot open. I waited and went back 2nd time , texted her that I love her and want a happy family back.

Did you interpret Her Behavior, (not some vague wording) to mean that she wants to be a "happy" family with you?

I think she's suprised that things got heavy perhaps...but MAYBE you are projecting your wants onto her.

You assume things b/c you want to believe those things.

And you are pressing her for more than she's ready. Even when there is progress, you jump the gun.

She may well be confused, and maybe it's b/c you made changes that cause her to second guess her choice to leave (which is the best you can hope for at this point in time)

but she's clearly not ready to reconcile and "be a happy family".

Can you describe when you THREE were happy together? Big bruce said once the baby came his wife was "obsessed" with the baby and so bruce detached from her "bad demeanor"...


Since you named me in the thread title as if I know you, but I don't recall this "Brahim" name, & you chose to post on Big Bruce's thread (& you sound so much like Big Bruce) I can only assume that you are him

OR you are not and therefore I can only go on these few posts here.

Please provide more info AND at least try to answer the questions I ask or there's no reason for me to be here. No offense, but it's just reality.