Thanks, NQ and TTD. I must get some rest, but I'll be back tomorrow with a better attitude and a new thread. Funny thing, when I first started sorting stuff here and sending stuff with W and rearranging, I told her I wanted to replace the cheap furniture we have that came in boxes with stuff I'd fix up from the thrift stores and such. I've been wanting to do that for ages and have all kinds of ideas.
BTW, I failed at my distancing right off, as W texted me right as she was leaving from work to see if I wanted to go to the used book store. Of course I answered right away and we did that, got some food and brought it back to eat here so she could spend some quality time with the cats. We watched SNL that I had recorded. I feel like most of her b****y moments come from feeling guilty about the situation and feeling torn between the comfort of "home" even though she didn't like it here, and whatever it is she has going on at the new house. Just the way I read her actions, but I could be trying to be a new mind reading act.
Been reading some more of my motivational biography book (yes, I need to get back to "Change Your Life..." Have homework from my stress management class, too. <sigh>). Anyway, I'm getting excited about my upcoming vacation time - but I have to get through being on-call and a Friday night/Saturday morning network maintenance event this week first. Then I can break out the boots and hit the trail. LOL
Funny thing, when I first started sorting stuff here and sending stuff with W and rearranging, I told her I wanted to replace the cheap furniture we have that came in boxes with stuff I'd fix up from the thrift stores and such. 
I've been wanting to do that for ages and have all kinds of ideas.
