Need Help!!! WAW stated she wants a D

[NoMoreMistakes]

These boards and sharing definitely helps trying to find your way in situations where you thought you were alone.

Its definitely up to you how you deal with OM and when to reveal. My only comment would be to prepare yourself for that time and try to make sure its a decision and not a reaction. It will be tough because there is a ton of emotion that will come with it, but if you can pull it off you will probably be better off in the long run.

In my sitch, I acted out of pure emotion and broke almost every rule in the first few hours after discussing with the W. I might not be in as deep as I am now if I had just walked away and come back and dealt with things rationally.