I loaned my copy of "The Five Love Langauges" to my wife after we separated. She liked it so much she bought her own copy, and started lending it to friends.

Obviously, it hasn't helped our situation as she subsequently filed for D, but it is helpful to me to know what she craves.

Perhaps you could think of a way to get your W to read it. I think mine was intrigued by learning what her love language was. Purely for her own information of course. Wink.


Me:52
Wife:49
Married 19 years
Son:16
Daughter:14
Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013
Wife moved out 2Jun13

W filed for D 22Sep13