That is a really tough call Jon. I think that NTX gave you a great response above. Seems to me that your w is kinda dangling a carrot to see if you bite.

I honestly don't know what I would do.

Good luck!

Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)