He woke up with a left foot and was in a bad mood. Kids played around a lot and we were all going to Walmart to get more furniture for the baby. I decided that as my part of DBing I was going to go grocery shopping some place else instead and would meet up with them later. H said: we will wait for you to get back then.
Hum.
I bought Disneyland tickets to SS11 for his bday tomorrow and also stuff to make a yummy Oreo cake. SS11 had some rough patches for a couple of years and I just hate that he thinks this is his fault.
Anyway, H went to get the furniture by himself while S1 napped and I hung out with SS11. He came back in a much better mood and I strongly believe it is because I'm taking all this time and effort with SS11.
He kept making jokes, starting conversations, just being around.
We started talking about our marriage counselor and how much she made (she charges $175 - our insurance pays) and H said, "I think I can do something like that, for a living. I'm pretty good at reading people"
Huh?
I looked at him like he had three eyes and said, "therapists have to go through a lot of counseling to work on their own crap too"
H: you think I'm effed up, huh?
Me: pretty much
We talked about how my friend who is very good at what he does charges $300 + an hour and how she lives in a mention and has a house in the Caribbean where she lives for a few months out of the year.
H: does her husband go with her?
Me: no, they are separated
H: why?
Me: she seems to be going through a midlife crises. She has a much younger boyfriend in the islands and wants to quit everything
(Hint hint)
H: and she is your FRIEND?
See, this is the judgemental H that I know. If I even made friends with someone who was not acting very morally, he would have a problem with it.
I looked at him like he had five eyes this time and said, "you are in no position to judge anybody."
My neighbor sent a text wondering if I wanted to come over and I excused myself to go over there (part of my DBing). We usually just chat and I took my time just hanging out. When I got back, H was like, "what do you do there? What do you guys talk about?"
