Hmmmm. And hopeless limbo is kinder and more humane to us?
No, but he was still convinced that we were headed towards Divorce.
He was aware that Limbo land was a particularly difficult place for me to reside.
He's a very logical person. He tries so hard to not let his emotions rule him. So, he was 99.9% sure we were going to get divorced...but because he wasn't 100% sure, opted for limbo land. Which of course was all the opening I needed to get us to where we are today!
It obviously took him a long time to see that the 99.9 % of divorce was dropping in bits in peices until he got to the point of 1% chance for divorce.