Should I confront or not?

[willbwell]

peaceSJ, I have let my h come and go with seeing the kids as he pleases for a year. i've done this to stay amicable. we've had no set visitation plan. now that h has filed paperwork, I know I need to get visitation in place. while we have remained amicable. the reality is that my h does not want to be a part of our home. he's had absolutely no consequences to his actions. I've allowed it. Not the best choice. I would say. didn't want to confront. Didn't want to set bounderies. really, it got me no where. I am sorry you are in this situation. Starsky is right.