Has anyone ever seen the old movie "If a man answers"? If not, I would suggest it as a rental - it will make you laugh, if nothing else. I don't know, Bets. If you start with the secret admirer shtick, you have to walk a REALLY fine line, I think. I have to agree with Cycler in that it may cause more problems than its worth. If you do decide to send yourself flowers, have Meredith send you a loveletter, etc, just don't get too carried away - it sounds like it could be a tempting trap for crazymaking - just be careful. Make sure you aren't just doing it because things aren't going fast enough for you... ((((((Betsey)))))) Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
