Thanks adinva. I am going to keep it quiet with H until my S wants him to know. My H might be upset if he found out I withheld this info, but you're right, he came to me because he felt he could and I need to cherish that.

Thanks Angela, it makes me feel good to hear someone say I am a good mom. It's such tough work! I sincerely hope I can teach him some life lessons, ones that were hard for me to learn as I didn't get much guidance from my Mom. Thank you for the encouragement.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.