Should I confront or not?

[peaceSJ]

Last night was really bad. I found my H signed a year apartment lease. So he'll moved out within next three weeks. Then we had a talk, and he complained that I was a terrible wife and self-centered which I think is abosulutley not true. He blaimed on me for anything he can think of, not only sex but also things such as I don't like traveling, I don't skii, I'm not very interested in photography, I let him help feed our kids at midnight when they were new borns... I can understand he is not very satisfied with our sex life, but I don't understand how come suddenly he felt that our 17 year marriage is so miserable. He made me so angry.

Though he will move out, he said he'll still come back home every day since he wants to pick up kids from school and stay with them at home until they go to sleep. Then he'll go to the apartment. He will also continue to have dinner at home if I cook. Is it rediculous?

How do I deal with such situation? What kind boundries I should set?

I'd really appreciate your inputs? Thank you.