I voluntarily moved out for about 3 weeks when W requested. Last Friday I really felt like I needed a 180 and moved back in. W hasn't been home since - took D-4 with her.
MFT and one of W's friends have said that I'm wrong to want to stay here, that W and D-4 deserve to live here and I should get out if that's what she is asking for.
I felt like our time apart was getting nowhere. I was backing off like she asked. That's when she decided she wanted a divorce.
I'd just like to understand the rationale on staying in our marital home - guess I'm starting to second guess myself.