T, thanks. I do think IC will be good, and I am so happy that he is wanting to do it. I feel we are moving in a better direction now, and I am feeling a bit better. I do have a bit of an overwhelming feeling right now though, that I need all of the answers, like right now! Ok..breathe!!

You are right that I need to just feel my way along through it and do what feels right. For sure I know not to rush things and just slowly ease back into things. It feels strange though, since I have been working at detaching and now I have to detach a bit less. It's like I have let go of some of the emotions and feelings that I had and now I have to try to get it back.

Thanks again for your support!
-cp

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.