Honestly, I can't read your sitch any more without weeping, Mtnman. Or think about it without tears coming to my eyes.
I'm so sorry. You are finding a strength you didn't know you had. W is waching you through this too, seeing a man of integrity and love.
You'll get through this. I'm sure W is in intense agony. I watched my H suffer so much.
Your boys are much younger than mine were (mine were ages 19 and 12). They'll get throught this somehow too. I wish I could tell what is on the other side. I can't. I just know you'll be okay no matter what.
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway