thank you HWA and GTO for the replies. I know we are all in this crappy sit.
I have drafted a letter to h about taking on more time with kids. I presented option of taking on d's medical stuff or s17's school stuff. really don't want to relinquish either, but in all this... not what I want.
wish I could get over this 'cant believe this is happening to me' phase.
on a good note... I bought a groupon for 3 dance lessons! something Ive been wanting to do!


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13