It didn't even feel that good when I did it. I was just hurt and confused. I did a bunch of the no no stuff in that state that I now wish I hadn't. I think it did more harm that good really. It just made my W think she had done too much damage and that it wasn't fixable. Also opened them up to be guilt free and make their A official, now with my blessing.
From most of what I have seen on the boards, your bringing up that you know about OM is not going to be very productive. If its not a deal breaker for you, then just work on being a better H and detatch. Wish I would have done this, as I had suspected of OM and just let emotions take over when it was confirmed.
me: 30 XW:28 tgthr:4 m:1 no kids BD: June 2013 D: Jan 2014
