Mtnman, IMO you handled this perfectly. For a terrible situation and so much pain to you all four, you were the rock and made the right decision by not hugging her. I also think deciding to limit her visitation, knowing it will limit some of yours, is also right on track.

I'm so sorry this has to be part of the journey. I know she is hurting painfully too, but you have to do what is best for you and the boys.

You're tucked in a special place in my heart today, and your story brings tears to my eyes.

(((((Mtnman)))))

rH


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway