Mom is still hanging on and continues to suffer. I don't see much day to day change in her, but I can see it week to week. To be honest, nobody thought that she would even make it to the beginning of September. Here we are in October and she is closing in on our birthdays. My great great grandmother, my great aunt, my mom and me were ALL born on October 25th.
From the alien:
S22 told me that XW has sent all 4 of our sons and invite for Thanksgiving, but he said it sounded more like a lecture than an invitation. He said she also seemed to have a little attitude. He said it basically consisted of her telling them that it was time to meet her husband blah blah blah and how our boys should accept and be happy with the choices she has made blah blah blah. We have already made plans and I know that atleast two of my boys will not be going.
My thoughts:
Yes, they can accept the choices she has made but they do not have to be happy about it. Also, if they choose not to meet this guy, shouldn't she take her own medicine and accept the choices our sons have made about meeting him?
I wonder if she is finally starting to realize that she is paying the price for the choices she has made. The funny thing is, I told her that she would eventually end up being the biggest loser because of this. My boys want nothing to do with her new life, husband and family...
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
My great great grandmother, my great aunt, my mom and me were ALL born on October 25th. 