Were you sorry that you did text OM? It sounds like you wish you wouldn't have done it? I would love to send a text like that at an opportune moment. However, I don't think its going to have a positive effect on my situation. Just like bashing his face in would momentarily make me feel better but, the subsequent jail time and restraining order would be detrimental to all my efforts thus far. Trust me, I know better.
Thanks LTH,
Thanks for being so candid with us LBS's. Your point of view helps me understand my MLCer more clearly.
Here is a question for you all.
My S doesn't know that I know about OM. What is the best way to handle this new development when I get back home in a couple of days?
Should I just keep my mouth shut and carry on AsIf nothing has changed? Knowing about OM doesn't really change anything anyway. It just stung when I found out although I highly suspected OM for the last few months. It did help me become more detached because now, I know that there is no immediate hope that she will want to R. Knowing that there is not immediate hope for R helps keep me moving forward with my life.
